Hold truth to be more important

"We must always hold truth, as we can best determine it, to be more important, more vital to our self-interest than our comfort. Conversely, we most always consider our personal discomfort relatively unimportant and indeed, even welcome it in the service for truth. Mental health is an ongoing process of dedication to reality at all costs." - M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled

Hold truth to be more important. When we are not truthful our mental health is in jeopardy.

Renee Madison, MA, LPC, CSAT is a counselor in Colorado. She can be reached for appointments at 303-257-7623 or 970-324-6928.

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